Both of us.
It is one of those periods when we feel we've had a lil too much on our hands and we don't feel right with our environments. We need some time to ourselves and we tell each other. Each halves understand the situation the other half is in and we leave. Soon enough we come back again another time soon and we catch up on what we've missed. Its what both of us call it-time off. Once in a blue moon, one of us would feel this way. Maybe due to stress from school or we both just had enough of each other's attitudes and feel that we need to be away for a while. Not too long-a few days or a week. We've only done this once before and that was because i made him soooo pissed that he blew off. My bad really but we talked it out and soon it was fine. We always talk things out.
Thats the best part. Our arguments can turn into laughters pretty easily. And we can argue about the smallest things around. Like why i didn't get him a chocolate Mars bar when he asked for one. Or why i have to feed him in public and he cant feed me and many more that my short term memory cannot remember about. Moreover, when he pouts his lips like a little boy and turns away and pretends to be sad, its just so irresistible for me to disturb him and go "alalalalala............................ Don't like that la............................" and smile and he'll smile too,
and soon all sadness will go away and the sun will be shining on his face again. It makes me happy to see him happy and thats all i've ever asked for in our relationship.
On the other hand, he may seem all nice and charming on the outside but he too have an attitude problem which i hear pretty often about from his sisters and also not to mention serious mood swings. Sometimes his sisters will ask me how i can be with him for so long. I guess all i can answer them is that when you put two people with attitude and mood problems together, things change. And i can definitely say that things are looking great for us and i hope it will for a long time. Furthermore, with me unconsciously attracting attention to myself in public, i know he'll be there to worry and fuss about me even to the point of making me feel that he's too overprotective. I know he's jealous and i know there'll be those weird thoughts running through his head like all the what if's. I know he can't help it too. It touches me to know that he still do cares and i'm still important to him. It was apparent to me tonight, during my class bbq over at pasir ris. And even though he almost made me cry, he made me happy after that too. With an ice cream! hehe..
So here's to our nice slogan/banner/watever u call it up there with lots of credits to him and MS Powerpoint.
And also to many more years of good love. :)
Thats the best part. Our arguments can turn into laughters pretty easily. And we can argue about the smallest things around. Like why i didn't get him a chocolate Mars bar when he asked for one. Or why i have to feed him in public and he cant feed me and many more that my short term memory cannot remember about. Moreover, when he pouts his lips like a little boy and turns away and pretends to be sad, its just so irresistible for me to disturb him and go "alalalalala............................ Don't like that la............................" and smile and he'll smile too,
and soon all sadness will go away and the sun will be shining on his face again. It makes me happy to see him happy and thats all i've ever asked for in our relationship.
On the other hand, he may seem all nice and charming on the outside but he too have an attitude problem which i hear pretty often about from his sisters and also not to mention serious mood swings. Sometimes his sisters will ask me how i can be with him for so long. I guess all i can answer them is that when you put two people with attitude and mood problems together, things change. And i can definitely say that things are looking great for us and i hope it will for a long time. Furthermore, with me unconsciously attracting attention to myself in public, i know he'll be there to worry and fuss about me even to the point of making me feel that he's too overprotective. I know he's jealous and i know there'll be those weird thoughts running through his head like all the what if's. I know he can't help it too. It touches me to know that he still do cares and i'm still important to him. It was apparent to me tonight, during my class bbq over at pasir ris. And even though he almost made me cry, he made me happy after that too. With an ice cream! hehe..
So here's to our nice slogan/banner/watever u call it up there with lots of credits to him and MS Powerpoint.
And also to many more years of good love. :)
1 Comments:
At 1:05 PM , DOINK said...
khad, i know u guys could make it work. u being a scorpio probably have the same character/attitude as me thus i'm sure you'll make it work somehow. compromise, communication and understanding are important as well. so much abt telling all the minus points abt my lil frat, he's after all a nice guy, pampered & loved by all the woman in the family no matter how sucks his mood/attitude can be. he has always been the cutest brother in the family. you'll say so if you happen to see his childhood video (dunno still can be watched not.. i am sure still does though). oh, and just be patient with his mood swings & attitude. i've tolerated that since dunno when. it's just something that you've to accept. when you love that person, you have to accept & love everything in that person i guess. and for you lil frat, change yourself to be someone better. jealousy, being too over-protective and mood swings can turn off a woman ok. change to a positive better person if you dun wish to be nagged by mua!
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